Friday, December 31, 2010

Happy New Year


It's 1 day to let go 2010,

:) Thanks to those who hated me, they made me a stronger person.

:) Thanks to those who loved me, they made my heart bigger.

:) Thanks to those who were worried about me, they let me know that they actually cared.

:) Thanks to those who left me, they made me realize that nothing lasts forever.

:) Thanks to those who entered my life, they made me who I'm today.

Just want to THANK YOU for being there in my life whatever I might have meant to you.

It is really wonderful time of the year being with you.

I want to be the 1st to wish you.

Feliz Año Nuevo
Joyeux Nouvel An
Glückliches neues Jahr
Gelukkig Nieuwjaar
Feliz Ano Novo
Buon anno
新年快乐 Xīnnián Kuàilè
明けましておめでとうございます Akemashite Omedetōgozaimasu
새해 복 많이 Saehae Bog Manh-i
سنة جديدة سعيدة
С Новым годом S Novym godom
Ευτυχισμένο το Νέο Έτος Ef̱tychisméno to Néo Étos
Happy New Year


Wednesday, December 22, 2010

IBU


Pada Saat Tuhan Menciptakan Para Ibu Ketika itu, Tuhan telah bekerja enam hari lamanya.

Kini giliran diciptakan para ibu.

Seorang malaikat menghampiri Tuhan dan berkata lembut: "Tuhan, banyak nian waktu yg Tuhan habiskan untuk menciptakan ibu ini?"

Dan Tuhan menjawab pelan: "Tidakkah kau lihat perincian yang harus dikerjakan?

01) Ibu ini harus waterproof (tahan air / cuci) tapi bukan dari plastik.

02) Harus terdiri dari 180 bagian yang lentur, lemas dan tidak cepat capai

03) Ia harus bisa hidup dari sedikit teh kental dan makanan seadanya untuk mencukupi kebutuhan anak-anaknya

04) Memiliki kuping yang lebar untuk menampung keluhan anak-anaknya.

05) Memiliki ciuman yang dapat menyembuhkan dan menyejukan hati anaknya.

06) Lidah yang manis untuk merekatkan hati yang patah, dan

07) Enam pasang tangan!! ---

Malaikat itu menggeleng-gelengkan kepalanya "Enam pasang tangan....? tsk tsk tsk" --- "Tentu saja! Bukan tangan yang merepotkan Saya, melainkan tangan yang melayani sana sini, mengatur segalanya menjadi lebih baik...." balas Tuhan.

08) Juga tiga pasang mata yang harus dimiliki seorang ibu.

"Bagaimana modelnya?" Malaikat semakin heran.

Tuhan mengangguk- angguk. "Sepasang mata yang dapat menembus pintu yang tertutup rapat dan bertanya: "Apa yang sedang kau lakukan di dalam situ?", padahal sepasang mata itu sudah mengetahui jawabannya. "Sepasang mata kedua sebaiknya diletakkan di belakang kepalanya, sehingga ia bisa melihat ke belakang tanpa menoleh. Artinya, ia dapat melihat apa yang sebenarnya tak boleh ia lihat dan sepasang mata ketiga untuk menatap lembut seorang anak yang mengakui kekeliruannya. Mata itu harus bisa bicara! Mata itu harus berkata: "Saya mengerti dan saya sayang padamu". Meskipun tidak diucapkan sepatah kata pun.

"Tuhan", kata malaikat itu lagi, "Istirahatlah"

"Saya tidak dapat, Saya sudah hampir selesai"

09) Ia harus bisa menyembuhkan diri sendiri kalau ia sakit.

10) Ia harus bisa memberi makan 6 orang dengan satu setengah ons daging.

11) Ia juga harus menyuruh anak umur 9 tahun mandi pada saat anak itu tidak ingin mandi....

Akhirnya Malaikat membalik balikkan contoh Ibu dengan perlahan.
"Terlalu lunak", katanya memberi komentar.
"Tapi kuat", kata Tuhan bersemangat.
"Tak akan kau bayangkan betapa banyaknya yang bisa ia tanggung,pikul dan derita.
"Apakah ia dapat berpikir?" tanya malaikat lagi.
"Ia bukan saja dapat berpikir, tapi ia juga dapat memberi gagasan, ide dan berkompromi", kata Sang Pencipta.
Akhirnya Malaikat menyentuh sesuatu dipipi. "Eh, ada kebocoran disini"
"Itu bukan kebocoran", kata Tuhan. "Itu adalah air mata.... air mata kesenangan, air mata kesedihan, air mata kekecewaan, air mata kesakitan, air mata kesepian, air mata kebanggaan, airmata...., airmata...."

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Kata-kata bijak mengenai pengampunan


Kumpulan kata-kata mutiara / bijak mengenai memaafkan / pengampunan (Forgiveness)

I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note - torn in two, and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one. ~Henry Ward Beecher

Forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it. ~Mark Twain

Once a woman has forgiven her man, she must not reheat his sins for breakfast. ~Marlene Dietrich

It's easier to ask forgiveness than it is to get permission. ~Grace Hopper

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. ~Mahatma Gandhi

To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you. ~Lewis B. Smedes, "Forgiveness - The Power to Change the Past," Christianity Today, 7 January 1983 (Thanks, Donna)

Forgiveness is a funny thing. It warms the heart and cools the sting. ~William Arthur Ward

Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. ~Paul Boese

If you can't forgive and forget, pick one. ~Robert Brault

You can make up a quarrel, but it will always show where it was patched. ~Edgar Watson Howe, Country Town Sayings, 1911

It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend. ~William Blake, Jerusalem

Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge. ~Isaac Friedmann

Forgive all who have offended you, not for them, but for yourself. ~Harriet Nelson

He who cannot forgive breaks the bridge over which he himself must pass. ~George Herbert

There's no point in burying a hatchet if you're going to put up a marker on the site. ~Sydney Harris

Nobody forgets where he buried the hatchet. ~Frank McKinney "Kin" Hubbard, Abe Martin's Broadcast, 1930

Yes, this is what good is: to forgive evil. There is no other good. ~Antonio Porchia, Voces, 1943, translated from Spanish by W.S. Merwin

What we forgive too freely doesn't stay forgiven. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960

It's far easier to forgive an enemy after you've got even with him. ~Olin Miller

Forgiving is love's toughest work, and love's biggest risk. If you twist it into something it was never meant to be, it can make you a doormat or an insufferable manipulator. Forgiving seems almost unnatural. Our sense of fairness tells us people should pay for the wrong they do. But forgiving is love's power to break nature's rule. ~Lewis B. Smedes

There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness. ~Josh Billings

Without forgiveness life is governed by... an endless cycle of resentment and retaliation. ~Roberto Assagioli

One thing you will probably remember well is any time you forgive and forget. ~Franklin P. Jones

Never does the human soul appear so strong as when it forgoes revenge, and dares forgive an injury. ~E.H. Chapin

Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much. ~Oscar Wilde

Kata-kata bijak mengenai Persahabatan


Kata-kata mutiara / bijak mengenai persahabatan (Friendship)

A friend is one of the nicest things you can have, and one of the best things you can be. ~Douglas Pagels

Friendship isn't a big thing - it's a million little things. ~Author Unknown

A single rose can be my garden... a single friend, my world. ~Leo Buscaglia

Only your real friends will tell you when your face is dirty. ~Sicilian Proverb

The antidote for fifty enemies is one friend. ~Aristotle

In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit. ~Albert Schweitzer

A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they're not so good, and sympathizes with your problems when they're not so bad. ~Arnold H. Glasgow

The friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you. ~Elbert Hubbard, The Notebook, 1927

A good friend is cheaper than therapy. ~Author Unknown

If a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it. ~Edgar Watson Howe

The most I can do for my friend is simply be his friend. ~Henry David Thoreau

A true friend never gets in your way unless you happen to be going down. ~Arnold Glasow

But if the while I think on thee, dear friend,
All losses are restored and sorrows end.
~William Shakespeare

The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can grow separately without growing apart. ~Elisabeth Foley

It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend. ~William Blake

A friend is the only person you will let into the house when you are Turning Out Drawers. ~Pam Brown

One's friends are that part of the human race with which one can be human. ~George Santayana

A friend knows the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails. ~Donna Roberts

If I had to sum up Friendship in one word, it would be Comfort. ~Adabella Radici

If a man does not make new acquaintances as he advances through life, he will soon find himself alone. A man should keep his friendships in constant repair. ~Samuel Johnson

True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable. ~Dave Tyson Gentry

You can always tell a real friend: when you've made a fool of yourself he doesn't feel you've done a permanent job. ~Laurence J. Peter

Kata-Kata Bijak Mengenai Pelukan



A hug is like a boomerang - you get it back right away. ~Bil Keane, "Family Circus"

Millions and millions of years would still not give me half enough time to describe that tiny instant of all eternity when you put your arms around me and I put my arms around you. ~Jacques Prevert

Everybody needs a hug. It changes your metabolism. ~Leo Buscaglia

You can't wrap love in a box, but you can wrap a person in a hug. ~Author Unknown

Hug Department: Always Open ~Author Unknown

I love hugging. I wish I was an octopus, so I could hug ten people at a time. ~Drew Barrymore

No matter how hard you hug your money, it never hugs back. ~Quoted in P.S. I Love You, compiled by H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

Arm ourselves for war? No! All the arms we need are for hugging. ~Author Unknown

I will not play at tug o' war
I'd rather play at hug o' war,
Where everyone hugs
Instead of tugs....
~Shel Silverstein

A hug is a handshake from the heart. ~Author Unknown

You can't give a hug without getting a hug. ~Author Unknown

A hug delights and warms and charms,
that must be why God gave us arms.
~Author Unknown

Hugs are the universal medicine. ~Author Unknown

A hug is a great gift - one size fits all, and it's easy to exchange. ~Author Unknown

Happiness is an unexpected hug. ~Author Unknown

A kiss without a hug is like a flower without the fragrance. ~Proverb

If you're angry at a loved one, hug that person. And mean it. You may not want to hug - which is all the more reason to do so. It's hard to stay angry when someone shows they love you, and that's precisely what happens when we hug each other. ~Walter Anderson, The Confidence Course, 1997

There's nothing like a mama-hug. ~Adabella Radici

Hugs grease the wheels of the world. ~Author Unknown

Hug someone your appreciation. ~Violet Gartenlicht

A hug is worth a thousand words. ~Author Unknown

A hug is a smile with arms, a laugh with a stronger grip. ~The Quote Garden

Have you hugged yourself today? ~Anonymous

A hug is two hearts wrapped in arms. ~Author Unknown

I don't discriminate - I'm an equal-opportunity hugger. ~Author Unknown

Hugging has no unpleasant side effects and is all natural. There are no batteries to replace, it's inflation-proof and non-fattening with no monthly payments. It's non-taxable, non-polluting, and is, of course, fully refundable. ~Author Unknown

Never wait until tomorrow to hug someone you could hug today,
because when you give one, you get one right back your way.
~Author Unknown

Be a love pharmacist: dispense hugs like medicine - they are! ~The Quote Garden

Sometimes it's better to put love into hugs than to put it into words. ~Author Unknown

A hug is the shortest distance between friends. ~Author Unknown

Don't


* Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.

* Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.

* Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.

* Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.

* Don’t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.

* Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us each together.

* Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.

* Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.

* Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, but also where you are going.

* Don’t forget that a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.

* Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.

* Don’t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way.

Kata-kata mutiara tentang kebahagiaan


“Anyone who says sunshine brings happiness has never danced in the rain.”
Unknown

“Happiness is a function of accepting what is.”
Werner Erhard

“Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.”
Herman Cain

“It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness.”
Charles Haddon Spurgeon

“The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up.”
Mark Twain

“There are hundreds of languages in the world, but a smile speaks them all.”
Unknown

“A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.”
Hugh Downs

“People are just about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”
Abraham Lincoln

“The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.”
Unknown

“If you're going to be able to look back on something and laugh about it, you might as well laugh about it now.”
Marie Osmond

“Remember that happiness is a way of travel, not a destination.”
Roy Goodman

“Our happiness is greatest when we contribute most to the happiness of others.”
Harriet Shepard

“Don't cry when the sun is gone, because the tears won't let you see the stars”
Violeta Parra

“To be able to find joy in another's joy, that is the secret of happiness.”
George Bernanos

“Most of the shadows of this life are caused by standing in one's own sunshine.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Before you talk about what you want - Really appreciate what you have before it's gone.”
Ethan Daniel

“Dont cry because its over, smile because it happened.”
Unknown

Kata-kata bijak mengenai kegagalan


Kumpulan kata-kata bijak mutiara dan motivasi mengenai kegagalan

“Defeat is not defeat unless accepted as a reality in your own mind” (Bruce Lee).

“Defeat never comes to any man until he admits it” (Josephus Daniel).

“Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising up every time we fail” (RalphWaldo Emerson).

“Edison failed 10, 000 times before he made the electric light. Do not be discouraged if you fail a few times.” (Napoleon Bonaparte).

Kenali kesalahan-kesalahan Anda dan belajarlah darinya, namun jangan pernah berkutat di dalamnya.

Orang Bodoh tidak pernah belajar dari kegagalannya.

Orang Pandai belajar dari kegagalan yang ia perbuat dan ia memperbaikinya.

Orang Bijak belajar dari kegagalan orang lain

Cara yang paling pasti untuk menghindari kegagalan adalah dengan tidak mencoba.

Gagal dan Sukses merupakan Satu paket menuju Sukses. Gagal hari ini bisa jadi Sukses Esok Hari.

“Anda dapat melakukannya apabila Anda yakin mampu melakukannya, Anda dapat mengubah nasib Anda (Napoleon Hill”

“Putuskan untuk menjalani kehidupan sepenuh-penuhnya, Anda mungkin hanya tinggal tiga kaki dari emas (Napoleon Hill)”

“Saya tidak pernah menemui kegagalan dalam 10000x percobaan saya menemukan lampu, yang saya temui adalah 10000 bahan itu tidak cocok untuk dijadikan lampu” (Thomas Alfa Edison, penemu Lampu)


“Tidak Belajar Sehari adalah Sebuah Kesalahan”
“Tidak Belajar Seminggu adalah Sebuah Kebodohan”
“Tidak Belajar Setahun adalah Sebuah Kemiskinan dan Kemelaratan”
“Dan TIDAK BELAJAR Seumur Hidup adalah Sebuah Warisan Yang Berbahaya buat Keturunan”

Kumpulan Kata-kata Mutiara tentang kebahagiaan


“Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.”
Unknown

“Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.”
Norman Vincent Peale

“Those who bring sunshine into the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves.”
James Matthew Barrie

“No one needs a smile as much as a person who fails to give one.”
Unknown

“People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they are not on your road does not mean they have gotten lost.”
Jackson Browne

“Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action.”
Benjamin Disraeli

“Happiness is a choice that requires effort at times.”
Unknown

“Time you enjoy wasting, was not wasted.”
John Lennon

“The foolish person seeks happiness in the distance; the wise person grows it under his feet.”
James Oppenheim

“For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson

Kumpulan kata-kata hikmat, kata-kata penghiburan

Jarak paling jauh antara masalah dengan solusi hanyalah sejauh lutut dengan lantai. Orang yang berlutut pada Tuhan bisa berdiri untuk melakukan apapun !

Iman yang kecil bilang: Tuhan bisa melakukannya.
Iman yang besar bilang: Tuhan akan melakukannya.
Tapi iman yang dahsyat bilang: Sudah dilakukan!

If GOD leads you to the edge of cliff, trust HIM fully. One or two things will happen, either HE will catch you when you fall, or HE will teach you how to fly

Hidup bisa memberi kita 100 alasan buat menangis, tapi Tuhan memberi kita 1000 alasan untuk tersenyum.

Cinta bisa buat orang bahagia; uang bisa buat dunia berputar; tapi sahabat... ah, itu yang buat hidup lebih hidup.

God is too wise that He created friends without "price tags" coz if He did, I can't afford to buy a luxalary expensive friend like "U"

Penyesalan sehari bila masak nasi menjadi bubur, penyesalan sebulan bila salah potong rambut, penyesalan setahun bila tidak lulus, penyesalan seumur hidup bila salah pilih pasangan hidup, penyesalan selamanya bila salah pilih JURU SELAMAT. Maka janganlah pindah ke iman yang lain selain Tuhan Yesus.

Sejauh mana engkau mau Tuhan campur tangan dalam hidupmu, maka sejauh itulah Dia akan campur tangan dalam hidupmu...

Seorang Sahabat Menaruh Kasih Setiap waktu dan menjadi Saudara dalam Kesukaran.

Tuhan selalu ngasih harapan pada yang ngga menyerah, mujizat pada yang percaya dan Dia nggak ninggalin mereka yang berjalan bersamaNya.

Ukuran bagi Allah sudah jelas, jika anda tidak memiliki hutang, anda lebih kaya dari orang yang memiliki hutang,Titik.

Allah adalah seperti seorang pandai besi yang sedang membuat pedang.
pedangnya adalah kita

Di dalam hidup ini kita akan banyak menemui kegagalan karena itulah yang namanya hidup...
Namun, dari kegagalan itu kita dapat belajar terus untuk meperoleh keberhasilan...
Orang yang gagal adalah orang yang takut dan tidak pernah mencoba untuk melakukan segala sesuatu karena takut akan kegagalan itu sendiri...

Seringkali Hidupmu Menangis


Kadangkala hidup mengharuskanmu menangis tanpa sebab. Kamu merasa sudah berbuat baik dan benar, tetapi masih banyak kritikan yang dialamatkan kepadamu. Kamu mengira keputusan yang kamu ambil sudah tepat, ternyata perkiraanmu keliru.


Jangan putus asa !! Bangkitlah !!

Matahari tanpa sinar tidak layak disebut matahari. demikian juga dirimu. kau adalah matahari yang seharusnya memancarkan sinar, sekalipun mendung kelabu menutupi pandangan orang untuk melihat keindahan cahayamu.

AKU sering melihat melihatmu marah ketika kamu melihat orang lain berhasil.
Untuk apa kamu menginginkan keberhasilan orang lain?

Bukankah AKU udah menyediakan suksesmu sendiri?
Kamu tidak pernah mengejarnya, jadi kamu tidak pernah bisa memilikinya.

Matamu tidak terfokus kepada rancangan-Ku yang dahsyat atas hidupmu, melainkan tertuju kepada karya-Ku yang luar biasa atas hidup orang lain.

Jadilah seperti air..Selalu mengalir...melewati semua benda, menembus semua sisi dan tanpa batas.

Anak-Ku,,,jangan mau dikalahkan oleh keadaan,,tetapi kalahkan keadaaan !!

Anak-Ku yang terkasih,,,jangan sakit hati ketika kau ditegur, padahal kau merasa sudah mengerjakan yang terbaik.

Sakit hati itu hanya akan membuat tidurmu tidak nyenyak dan perasaanmu tidak nyaman.

Buanglah itu dari hatimu dan pikiranmu !

Kuasailah dirimu sedemikian rupa hingga kamu bisa mengatasi perasaan diperlakukan tidak adil, dilecehkan, diremehkan ataupun dikhianati oleh sesamamu.

Bukankah untuk itu kau hidup? untuk melihat kenyataan bahwa di dunia ini yang paling mengerti perasaanmu dan menerima dirimu apa adanya hanya AKU?

Jauhilah segala bentuk kemarahan, tetapi jangan jauhi AKU.
Anak-Ku, ingatlah hal ini baik-baik. Aku selalu mebuka tangan-Ku lebar-lebar untuk memberimu rasa aman, kapanpun kau membutuhkannya.
AKU senantiasa menyiapkan bahu untuk tempat kepalamu bersandar dan mencurahkan tangis.
AKU melakukannya karena AKU sungguh-sungguh peduli padamu !!

Ayah yang selalu mengasihimu, ,

YESUS

Source: Elia Stories

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Just The Way You Are - Bruno Mars

Oh, her eyes, her eyes, make the stars look like they're not shining
Her hair, her hair, falls perfectly without her trying
She's so beautiful, and I tell her every day

Yeah, I know, I know, when I compliment her she won't believe me
And it's so, it's so, sad to think that she don't see what I see
But every time she asks me do I look ok, I say

When I see your face, there's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing, just the way you are
And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for a while
Because girl you're amazing, just the way you are(yeah)

Her lips, her lips, I could kiss them all day if she let me
Her laugh, her laugh, she hates but I think it's so sexy
She's so beautiful, and I tell her every day

Oh, you know, you know, you know, I'd never ask you to change
If perfect's what you're searching for then just stay the same
So, don't even bother asking if you look ok
You know I'll say

When I see your face, there's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing, just the way you are
And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for a while
Because girl you're amazing, just the way you are
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10 signs that say he is serious about you!


1) He seeks your opinion in everything from minor decisions to major ones

It could be something as simple as buying a tie to match his shirt. Or major ones like what car he should buy. It shows that he values your opinions and thinks that you have great judgement and insight as well.

2) He wants you to meet his family, friends and everybody else
He is serious in making you part of his social circle and does not see you as just another casual date when he wants you to meet his family.

3) He spends a lot of time together with you
If he is not genuinely interested in you, would he spend time with you rather than go for his favourite soccer match with his buddies

4) He does not show signs that he is terrified when you mention something happening in a year or two
It shows that he is serious about the relationship he has with you. He can see himself being with you even two years later.

5) He calls you many times a day, but does not admit he misses you
When he calls you, he may find an excuse to do so, like asking you what you are doing currently, finding out what you have eaten for dinner, but never saying the words “I miss hearing your voice, that’s why I called”.

6) He remembers your favourite food and brings it to you by surprise
You probably casually mentioned that you love the brownie from that café only once, but he remembered and brought it to you without you asking for it. If he is not serious about you, would he have remembered what you say to such detail?

7) He lets you choose the restaurants you want to go and the movies you want to watch
Even if he does not like spicy stuff, but you love curry to bits, he will accompany you and even treat you to a meal at a nice Indian restaurant. How sweet can it get? If he does not treat you seriously, why would he bother to cater to you?

8) He can’t wait to tell you what happened in the day
Every night he updates you with how he spent his day, without you asking first. He finds it a joy sharing these intimate details with you. When he hears a new joke, he can’t wait to call you immediately and make you laugh.

9) He is willing to share details of his finances with you
The topic of finances can be quite sensitive and is usually not something that is openly shared, even with friends. If he is willing to tell you, he probably treats you more than a casual friend!

10) He rushes to your side upon hearing that you are sick
Even if it is really late at night and he has an important meeting the next morning, he is willing to come and bring you to the doctor. Only a guy who is serious about you will be that worried!

Well, if you find all these signs all too familiar, it is most likely true that he is serious about you and your relationship. Although he may not have said the three magic words to you yet and have not officially asked you to be his gal, you can be quite assured that he really cares about you. If you like him as well, you can be sure that it will be reciprocated. Just don’t take too long to admit how you both feel about each other!

It is .....


It's so good to know that you have someone who'll be willing to help you cope up in every frustrations you're having. Every depressing moments, every down moments, every self-worthless-realization moments, he'd be there, not because you want someone to be with you, but because he wants to be with you.


It's great to know when a person appreciates every little thing you do. Even a smile would mean a lot to him, just because you own that smile. And that even if no words are expressed as long as the eyes understand, you'd be able to communicate, just like that.

It's overwhelming when a person tells you that he loves you for who you are. He may not have an answer when you ask him why, but really, he doesn't have to have reasons for loving you.

It's more grateful to know that someone is grateful to have you. We don't choose the people who enter our lives, so it must be luck that you have that person, then you have to be thankful. It may just be coincidence or fate, but whatever the reason is, you have to be thankful in having him the same way he is thankful for having you.

It's a wonderful feeling when you're on the verge of giving up the things you've worked hard for, someone isn't just helping you carry the weight on your shoulders, but he carries it on his own because he'd also be in pain when you are in pain. And then you'll realize, trials would all be worth it as long as you have him, not because he would do things for you, but because you gather all the strength you need, in him and his love.

It's a superb feeling when one is willing to take the risks just so you'll be happy. Unselfishness rule in him just so happiness would take over you.

It's a nice feeling that when you're apart, and days seem to be long, that person misses you. Yes, you might feel bad about not being with each other, but knowing that you feel the same way would drive those blues away, thinking, you'd fight over that feeling because you're looking forward to seeing each other, and that's something to be happy about.

It's a great feeling when he wants to be with you because of the happiness you have when you're together. That even if corny jokes and senseless stories are told, it won't matter as long as you're together.

It's a lovely feeling when someone thinks about your future, with or without him. He cares and he cares enough to think of you and what you'll be someday. But of course, he also wants to be in it someday.

It's a nice feeling when you can be who you really are with that person. No pretentions, no lies, no hypocrisy, because he accepts you for who you are. You can be funny, you can be embarrased, but it won't matter coz it doesn't matter to him. Trust and faith in each other keeps you alive. And it will always do.

It's good to know that you have someone who'll not have the intentions of breaking your heart. Instead, he would be willing to mend it, picking up the broken pieces of your heart that your past love have scattered in the ground. He may not be able to put the pieces back to where they really belong, but you shouldn't mind, because he had repaired that heart of yours, and he fixed it in his own way. He loves you in his own way, not the way your past did. He fixed your heart in a different way, to keep you from feeling the pains of your past heartache and to make you feel, the love, that he's unselfishly giving.

It's a great feeling when that person has every effort to let you feel what he feels for you. Because of the distractions, you may not hear him shout it to the world, but as long as you feel it, his efforts has paid off, big time. And when you feel the same way too... He'd feel as if he's the luckiest person alive.

A - Z of Friend


(A)ccepts you as you are

(B)elieves in "you"

(C)alls you just to say "HI"

(D)oesn't give up on you

(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)

(F)orgives your mistakes

(G)ives unconditionally

(H)elps you

(I)nvites you over

(J)ust "be" with you

(K)eeps you close at heart

(L)oves you for who you are

(M)akes a difference in your life

(N)ever Judges

(O)ffer support

(P)icks you up

(Q)uiets your fears

(R)aises your spirits

(S)ays nice things about you

(T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it

(U)nderstands you

(V)alues you

(W)alks beside you

(X)-plains thing you don't understand

(Y)ells when you won't listen and

(Z)aps you back to reality

Can You Ever Love Me for Me?


Can you ever love me for me?

For the me that I am true and true

Can you love me with my imperfections?

Can you see me as I am and not as what you want me to be?

Can you ever love me for me?

For the me that makes mistakes and speaks without thinking

Can you love me even when I am unreasonable?

Can you see me as I am and not for the Angel you seek?

Can you ever love me for me?

For the me that cries when a stranger child is hurt

Can you love me when I am sad without me having a reason to be?

Can you see me as I am not as what I once was?

Can you ever love me for me?

Monday, December 13, 2010

Body Detoxification Schedule


Evening at 9 - 11pm

It's the time for eliminating unnecessary/toxic chemicals (de-toxification) from the antibody system (lymph nodes). This time duration should be spent by relaxing or listening to music. If during this time a housewife is still in an unrelaxed state such as washing the dishes or monitoring children doing their homework, this will have a negative impact on health.


Evening at 11pm - 1am

It's the de-toxification process in the liver, and ideally should be done in a deep sleep state.


Early morning 1 - 3am

De-toxification process in the gall, also ideally done in a deep sleep state.


Early morning 3 - 5am

De-toxification in the lungs. Therefore there will sometimes be a severe cough for cough sufferers during this time. Since the de-toxification process had reached the respiratory tract, there is no need to take cough medicine so as not to interfere with toxin removal process.


Morning 5 - 7am

De-toxification in the colon, you should empty your bowel.


Morning 7 - 9am

Absorption of nutrients in the small intestine, you should be having breakfast at this time. Breakfast should be earlier, before 6:30am , for those who are sick. Breakfast before7:30am is very beneficial to those wanting to stay fit.


Those who always skip breakfast, they should change their habits, and it is still better to eat breakfast late until 9 - 10am rather than no meal at all.


Sleeping so late and waking up too late will disrupt the process of removing unnecessary chemicals.


Aside from that, midnight to 4am is the time when the bone marrow produces blood.


Therefore, have a good sleep and don't sleep late!

Happy Monday with Busway


Happy Monday all, days of sunshine and heat of course. Depart to the office from home using the Busway, it is not so comfortable ride but is very helpful in saving transportation costs and avoid traffic jams.


But there is much that still needs improvement in the operation of the busway, as follows:


1. Total fleet each corridor should be considered, so that there will be no long queues at the shelter. For example in the Dukuh Atas shelter, a comparison between a bus to Ragunan and to Pulogadung very significant. The comparison can be 1: 5 (Ragunan: Pulogadung)


2. Very poor shelter conditions, dirty, dusty, hot (Because the fan and the exhaust is not working / broken). Make it cleans and cold (put airconditioner).


3. The condition of the bus;

a. Many are broken handrails

b. AC is not cool anymore (need to care for periodically cleaned)


Hopefully, local governments and departments of transportation and facilities can fix Busway infrastructure, so more people using the busway instead of using private cars, so that congestion can be reduced.


Have a nice day :)

Sahabat Sejati


Mempunyai satu sahabat sejati lebih berharga dari seribu teman yang mementingkan diri sendiri

Apa yang kita alami demi teman kadang-kadang melelahkan dan menjengkelkan, tetapi itulah yang membuat persahabatan
mempunyai nilai yang indah.

Persahabatan sering menyuguhkan beberapa cobaan, tetapi persahabatan sejati bisa mengatasi cobaan itu bahkan bertumbuh bersama karenanya...

Persahabatan tidak terjalin secara otomatis tetapi membutuhkan proses yang panjang seperti besi menajamkan besi, demikianlah sahabat menajamkan sahabatnya..

Persahabatan diwarnai dengan berbagai pengalaman suka dan duka, dihibur - disakiti, diperhatikan - dikecewakan, didengar - diabaikan, dibantu - ditolak, namun semua ini tidak pernah sengaja dilakukan dengan tujuan kebencian..

Seorang sahabat tidak akan menyembunyikan kesalahan untuk menghindari perselisihan, justru karena kasihnya ia memberanikan diri menegur apa adanya.

Sahabat tidak pernah membungkus pukulan dengan ciuman, tetapi menyatakan apa yang amat menyakitkan dengan tujuan sahabatnya mau berubah.

Proses dari teman menjadi sahabat membutuhkan usaha pemeliharaan dari kesetiaan, tetapi bukan pada saat kita membutuhkan bantuan barulah kita memiliki motivasi mencari perhatian, pertolongan dan pernyataaan kasih dari orang lain, tetapi justru ia berinisiatif memberikan dan mewujudkan apa yang dibutuhkan oleh sahabatnya.
Kerinduannya adalah menjadi bagian dari kehidupan sahabatnya, karena tidak ada persahabatan yang diawali dengan sikap egoistis.

Semua orang pasti membutuhkan sahabat sejati, namun tidak semua orang berhasil mendapatkannya. Banyak pula orang yang telah menikmati indahnya persahabatan, namun ada juga yang begitu hancur karena dikhianati sahabatnya.

Ingatlah kapan terakhir kali anda berada dalam kesulitan. Siapa yang berada di samping anda ???
Siapa yang mengasihi anda saat anda merasa tidak dicintai ??
Siapa yang ingin bersama anda
saat anda tak bisa memberikan apa-apa ??

MEREKALAH SAHABAT ANDA

Hargai dan peliharalah selalu persahabatan anda dengan mereka.

** Dalam masa kejayaan, teman-teman mengenal kita. Dalam kesengsaraan, kita mengenal teman-teman kita **

Lima peraturan sederhana untuk hidup bahagia


1. Bebaskan dirimu dari kebencian


2. Bebaskan pikiranmu dari kesusahan.

3. Hiduplah secara sederhana.

4. Berilah lebih.

5. Kurangilah harapan.

Tiada seorangpun yang bisa kembali dan mulai baru dari awal.
Setiap orang dapat mulai saat ini dan melakukan akhir yang baru.

Tuhan tidak menjanjikan hari-hari tanpa sakit, tertawa tanpa kesedihan, matahari tanpa hujan, tetapi Dia menjanjikan kekuatan untuk hari itu, kebahagiaan untuk air mata, dan terang dalam perjalanan.

Kekecewaan bagai "polisi tidur", ini akan memperlambatmu sedikit tetapi kau selanjutnya akan menikmati jalan rata. Jangan tinggal terlalu lama saat ada "polisi tidur".

Berjalanlah terus.
Ketika kau kecewa karena tidak memperoleh apa yang kaukehendaki, terimalah dan bergembiralah, karena Tuhan sedang memikirkan sesuatu yang lebih baik untuk dirimu,

Saat terjadi sesuatu padamu, baik atau buruk, pertimbangkanlah artinya...

Ada suatu maksud untuk setiap kejadian dalam kehidupan, mengajarmu bagaimana lebih seringkali tertawa atau tidak terlalu keras menangis.

Kau tidak dapat memaksa seseorang mencintaimu, apa yang dapat kau perbuat hanyalah membiarkan dirimu untuk dicintai, selebihnya ada pada orang itu untuk menilai dirimu.

Ukuran cinta adalah saat kau mencintai tanpa batas. Dalam kehidupan jarang akan kautemui seseorang yang kaucintai dan orang itu mencintaimu juga.

Jadi sekali kau memperoleh cinta jangan lepaskan, ada kemungkinan cinta itu tidak datang kembali.

Lebih baik kehilangan harga dirimu kepada orang yang mencintaimu, daripada kehilangan orang yang kaucintai karena harga dirimu.

Kita terlalu membuang-buang waktu untuk mencari-cari orang yang sesuai untuk dicintai atau melihat kesalahan-kesalahan pada orang yang telah kita cintai, dari pada malah seharusnya kita menyempurnakan cinta yang kita berikan.

Jika kau sungguh-sungguh senang pada seseorang, janganlah kau mencari-cari kekurangannya, kau jangan mencari-cari alasan, kau jangan mencari-cari kesalahannya.

Malahan, kau atasi kesalahan-kesalahan itu, kau terima kekurangan-kekurangan itu dan jangan kau hiraukan alasan-alasan itu

Jangan pernah meninggalkan rekan lama. Kau tidak akan pernah mendapat penggantinya.

Persahabatan adalah bagai anggur, tambah lama akan tambah baik.

Kumpulan Kata-Kata Hikmat dan Penghiburan


Jarak paling jauh antara masalah dengan solusi hanyalah sejauh lutut dengan lantai. Orang yang berlutut pada Tuhan bisa berdiri untuk melakukan apapun !

Iman yang kecil bilang: Tuhan bisa melakukannya.
Iman yang besar bilang: Tuhan akan melakukannya.
Tapi iman yang dahsyat bilang: Sudah dilakukan!

If GOD leads you to the edge of cliff, trust HIM fully. One or two things will happen, either HE will catch you when you fall, or HE will teach you how to fly

Hidup bisa memberi kita 100 alasan buat menangis, tapi Tuhan memberi kita 1000 alasan untuk tersenyum.

Cinta bisa buat orang bahagia; uang bisa buat dunia berputar; tapi sahabat... ah, itu yang buat hidup lebih hidup.

God is too wise that He created friends without "price tags" coz if He did, I can't afford to buy a luxalary expensive friend like "U"

Penyesalan sehari bila masak nasi menjadi bubur, penyesalan sebulan bila salah potong rambut, penyesalan setahun bila tidak lulus, penyesalan seumur hidup bila salah pilih pasangan hidup, penyesalan selamanya bila salah pilih JURU SELAMAT. Maka janganlah pindah ke iman yang lain selain Tuhan Yesus.

Sejauh mana engkau mau Tuhan campur tangan dalam hidupmu, maka sejauh itulah Dia akan campur tangan dalam hidupmu...

Seorang Sahabat Menaruh Kasih Setiap waktu dan menjadi Saudara dalam Kesukaran.

Tuhan selalu ngasih harapan pada yang ngga menyerah, mujizat pada yang percaya dan Dia nggak ninggalin mereka yang berjalan bersamaNya.

Ukuran bagi Allah sudah jelas, jika anda tidak memiliki hutang, anda lebih kaya dari orang yang memiliki hutang,Titik.

Allah adalah seperti seorang pandai besi yang sedang membuat pedang.
pedangnya adalah kita

Di dalam hidup ini kita akan banyak menemui kegagalan karena itulah yang namanya hidup...
Namun, dari kegagalan itu kita dapat belajar terus untuk meperoleh keberhasilan...
Orang yang gagal adalah orang yang takut dan tidak pernah mencoba untuk melakukan segala sesuatu karena takut akan kegagalan itu sendiri...

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Good morning & Happy Sunday



A very good morning to you all, hope you had a good sleep last night.

This morning opened with raining but it is still a beautiful day because it is holiday.

Now the sun rises and shines brightly.

Happy Sunday and enjoy your remaining weekend.

Fill your heart with love... :)